Compromise!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is seen by different people in different ways. One has his/her views and plans their life as per that. The interests of one may not match to some other. But at some point of time people who are not like minded tend to meet. The real game starts then. For those two people to mingle with each other and to maintain a long term relationship understanding is different. Out of understanding comes the compromise and some times sacrifice.

The two may be husband & wife, or freinds. Beacause of their varied interests at some moment there is always a scope for conflict and many people come out it and be together. This is possible only because of compromise. Knowing ones interests and even though it is against our interests respecting those interests always leads to a fruitful relationship. Many relations tend to falter because they don't tend to understand others interests.There is nothing wrong in compromising to something which is not in our interests for just the sake of maintaining that relationship. People without understanding this tend to create rage and make some immatured decisions leading to break up of that relation.

Other thing we have to keep in mind is there are some people who tend to thing the other way because of our compromises. They just think that he/she is spineless and they can dominate him/her throughout. But they don't know that it is for them and their relation we are comprimising many things in life.It is indeed very difficult to get a like minded people as life partner or friend. In that cases, there must be mutual understanding from either end to play safe in that relation. Ego doesn't work out in these cases and we

sometimes have to take a bottom step to let others crossover and work out the issues.

We study many morals, we learn many things out of experience, we study many articles like this but still our thoughts tend to dominate these learnings from other sources. These things never tend to tune our thoughts in a right manner. I bet there are some people who just give importance to relation rather than their personal interests. That kind of person always thinks this way, "Let me loose today but i am making my partner win and ultimately win over his relation". Ofcourse, life is meant for relations and happiness out of it.But for everything there is a threshold, if that is exceeded even the most sensible person tends to react and that is the end of that relation.