Have you questioned someone, "Have you ever compromised yourself for things in life?". Some may say, yes, many times but, some reply, I never and why should I? You may get some mysterious answers because that is how people are. The guy who answers that he never compromised may have in some cases unknowingly. No two guys in this world are unique whether it be lifestyle, thinking, relationships, culture, etc. So, yes there is always a need for compromise in few things when you deal with others at least.
Relations in this world are very strange. There is nothing like permanent enemy and enemy friend. Take an example of relationship between two people. People say, yes, we have maintained relationships throughout our life without any problems. But they don't understand that such relations exist if at least one person in that relation can compromise on few things. If neither in a relation have a compromising nature, that relationship definitely ends up breaking. The whole crux of these relationships is that if one person is aggressive the other person has to be soft mannered and understanding. If two persons are in such a category, the relationship never ends. The aggressive guy always tries to hurt the soft guy and the soft guy just adjusts himself. The guy who is soft natured just compromises his interests for the sake of maintaining the relation which the aggressive guy never understands.
This is not just said in words but many people face this issue. The worst phase is that the guy who compromises always ends up getting hurt, discouraged but still lives with it. Other people who look at it always thinks that aggressive guy is always correct but it is always the other way. Also, the disadvantage of being soft in nature is that people end up throwing stones (words which hurt) on you and always call you "passive". Instead, of sympathy, this guy gets lot of criticism. Whereas, an aggressive guy overcomes everything with his nature and tries to gain upper hand.
One has to remember that whether it be personal, official, friendship it is the soft guy who always brings name and fame. But he always keeps loosing relations for ever and ever. The nature of a calm and cool person is he keeps focusing on the task rather than focusing on his dis tractors. We might have seen many people like this and remember that these are the guys who are to be given credit. It is just not our personal, it is universal that because of this soft mannered guys everything ends up in a peaceful manner.
Observe in your circles, these soft mannered guys suffer a lot. They do complain of their suffering and issues in their circles but don't come in open. They don't want to make issue out of everything. They mean their business and give very less priority to other things.but if these guys come out in open then definitely, it will be a revolution and history always proved it.
If in case a relation ends, the aggressive guys, keep murmuring on the negative things of soft guy where as the soft is always ready to accept his own mistakes.
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